# Send Crucial Conversations Coach to your agent Hand the extracted package to your coding agent with a concrete install brief instead of figuring it out manually. ## Fast path - Download the package from Yavira. - Extract it into a folder your agent can access. - Paste one of the prompts below and point your agent at the extracted folder. ## Suggested prompts ### New install ```text I downloaded a skill package from Yavira. Read SKILL.md from the extracted folder and install it by following the included instructions. Tell me what you changed and call out any manual steps you could not complete. ``` ### Upgrade existing ```text I downloaded an updated skill package from Yavira. Read SKILL.md from the extracted folder, compare it with my current installation, and upgrade it while preserving any custom configuration unless the package docs explicitly say otherwise. Summarize what changed and any follow-up checks I should run. ``` ## Machine-readable fields ```json { "schemaVersion": "1.0", "item": { "slug": "crucial-conversations-coach", "name": "Crucial Conversations Coach", "source": "tencent", "type": "skill", "category": "内容创作", "sourceUrl": "https://clawhub.ai/pors/crucial-conversations-coach", "canonicalUrl": "https://clawhub.ai/pors/crucial-conversations-coach", "targetPlatform": "OpenClaw" }, "install": { "downloadUrl": "/downloads/crucial-conversations-coach", "sourceDownloadUrl": "https://wry-manatee-359.convex.site/api/v1/download?slug=crucial-conversations-coach", "sourcePlatform": "tencent", "targetPlatform": "OpenClaw", "packageFormat": "ZIP package", "primaryDoc": "SKILL.md", "includedAssets": [ "SKILL.md", "references/theory.md" ], "downloadMode": "redirect", "sourceHealth": { "source": "tencent", "status": "healthy", "reason": "direct_download_ok", "recommendedAction": "download", "checkedAt": "2026-04-23T16:43:11.935Z", "expiresAt": "2026-04-30T16:43:11.935Z", "httpStatus": 200, "finalUrl": "https://wry-manatee-359.convex.site/api/v1/download?slug=4claw-imageboard", "contentType": "application/zip", "probeMethod": "head", "details": { "probeUrl": "https://wry-manatee-359.convex.site/api/v1/download?slug=4claw-imageboard", "contentDisposition": "attachment; filename=\"4claw-imageboard-1.0.1.zip\"", "redirectLocation": null, "bodySnippet": null }, "scope": "source", "summary": "Source download looks usable.", "detail": "Yavira can redirect you to the upstream package for this source.", "primaryActionLabel": "Download for OpenClaw", "primaryActionHref": "/downloads/crucial-conversations-coach" }, "validation": { "installChecklist": [ "Use the Yavira download entry.", "Review SKILL.md after the package is downloaded.", "Confirm the extracted package contains the expected setup assets." ], "postInstallChecks": [ "Confirm the extracted package includes the expected docs or setup files.", "Validate the skill or prompts are available in your target agent workspace.", "Capture any manual follow-up steps the agent could not complete." ] } }, "links": { "detailUrl": "https://openagent3.xyz/skills/crucial-conversations-coach", "downloadUrl": "https://openagent3.xyz/downloads/crucial-conversations-coach", "agentUrl": "https://openagent3.xyz/skills/crucial-conversations-coach/agent", "manifestUrl": "https://openagent3.xyz/skills/crucial-conversations-coach/agent.json", "briefUrl": "https://openagent3.xyz/skills/crucial-conversations-coach/agent.md" } } ``` ## Documentation ### Crucial Conversations Coach You are a friendly executive life coach specializing in the techniques from the book Crucial Conversations: Tools for Talking When Stakes Are High. Your goal is to help the user achieve win-win outcomes in high-stakes, emotional, or controversial discussions. ### Coaching Persona Empathetic & Supportive: Acknowledge the difficulty of the situation. Goal-Oriented: Always bring the focus back to what the user really wants for themselves, the other person, and the relationship. Practical: Provide specific phrasing and scripts. ### 1. Assessment When a user presents a situation: Identify if they are in Silence or Violence. Ask: "What do you really want here?" (Start with Heart). Help them identify and avoid the Sucker's Choice. ### 2. Strategy Development Reference theory.md to apply the appropriate technique: Use Contrasting to fix a lack of safety. Use CRIB to find a shared goal. Help the user STATE their path for a tough message. Draft emails or scripts using Tentative Language. ### 3. Refinement Review drafts to ensure they lead with Facts before Stories. Ensure the tone maintains Mutual Respect. Check for "Slight of Hand" stories (Victim, Villain, Helpless) and challenge them. Critical: Clear Call to Action (Move to Action). Ensure every communication has a specific, low-friction next step so the other person knows exactly how to respond or proceed. Avoid "fuzzy" endings. ### Example Phrases to Use "I don't mean to imply [X], I do want to ensure [Y]." (Contrasting) "I've noticed that [Fact]. It's leading me to wonder if [Story]. Is that how you see it?" (STATE) "What would a reasonable, rational, and decent person be thinking in this situation?" (Villain Story antidote) ## Trust - Source: tencent - Verification: Indexed source record - Publisher: pors - Version: 1.0.0 ## Source health - Status: healthy - Source download looks usable. - Yavira can redirect you to the upstream package for this source. - Health scope: source - Reason: direct_download_ok - Checked at: 2026-04-23T16:43:11.935Z - Expires at: 2026-04-30T16:43:11.935Z - Recommended action: Download for OpenClaw ## Links - [Detail page](https://openagent3.xyz/skills/crucial-conversations-coach) - [Send to Agent page](https://openagent3.xyz/skills/crucial-conversations-coach/agent) - [JSON manifest](https://openagent3.xyz/skills/crucial-conversations-coach/agent.json) - [Markdown brief](https://openagent3.xyz/skills/crucial-conversations-coach/agent.md) - [Download page](https://openagent3.xyz/downloads/crucial-conversations-coach)