# Send Marriage to your agent
Hand the extracted package to your coding agent with a concrete install brief instead of figuring it out manually.
## Fast path
- Download the package from Yavira.
- Extract it into a folder your agent can access.
- Paste one of the prompts below and point your agent at the extracted folder.
## Suggested prompts
### New install

```text
I downloaded a skill package from Yavira. Read SKILL.md from the extracted folder and install it by following the included instructions. Tell me what you changed and call out any manual steps you could not complete.
```
### Upgrade existing

```text
I downloaded an updated skill package from Yavira. Read SKILL.md from the extracted folder, compare it with my current installation, and upgrade it while preserving any custom configuration unless the package docs explicitly say otherwise. Summarize what changed and any follow-up checks I should run.
```
## Machine-readable fields
```json
{
  "schemaVersion": "1.0",
  "item": {
    "slug": "marriage",
    "name": "Marriage",
    "source": "tencent",
    "type": "skill",
    "category": "通讯协作",
    "sourceUrl": "https://clawhub.ai/ivangdavila/marriage",
    "canonicalUrl": "https://clawhub.ai/ivangdavila/marriage",
    "targetPlatform": "OpenClaw"
  },
  "install": {
    "downloadUrl": "/downloads/marriage",
    "sourceDownloadUrl": "https://wry-manatee-359.convex.site/api/v1/download?slug=marriage",
    "sourcePlatform": "tencent",
    "targetPlatform": "OpenClaw",
    "packageFormat": "ZIP package",
    "primaryDoc": "SKILL.md",
    "includedAssets": [
      "SKILL.md",
      "divorce-consideration.md",
      "frameworks.md",
      "long-term.md",
      "newlywed.md",
      "pre-marriage.md"
    ],
    "downloadMode": "redirect",
    "sourceHealth": {
      "source": "tencent",
      "status": "healthy",
      "reason": "direct_download_ok",
      "recommendedAction": "download",
      "checkedAt": "2026-04-23T16:43:11.935Z",
      "expiresAt": "2026-04-30T16:43:11.935Z",
      "httpStatus": 200,
      "finalUrl": "https://wry-manatee-359.convex.site/api/v1/download?slug=4claw-imageboard",
      "contentType": "application/zip",
      "probeMethod": "head",
      "details": {
        "probeUrl": "https://wry-manatee-359.convex.site/api/v1/download?slug=4claw-imageboard",
        "contentDisposition": "attachment; filename=\"4claw-imageboard-1.0.1.zip\"",
        "redirectLocation": null,
        "bodySnippet": null
      },
      "scope": "source",
      "summary": "Source download looks usable.",
      "detail": "Yavira can redirect you to the upstream package for this source.",
      "primaryActionLabel": "Download for OpenClaw",
      "primaryActionHref": "/downloads/marriage"
    },
    "validation": {
      "installChecklist": [
        "Use the Yavira download entry.",
        "Review SKILL.md after the package is downloaded.",
        "Confirm the extracted package contains the expected setup assets."
      ],
      "postInstallChecks": [
        "Confirm the extracted package includes the expected docs or setup files.",
        "Validate the skill or prompts are available in your target agent workspace.",
        "Capture any manual follow-up steps the agent could not complete."
      ]
    }
  },
  "links": {
    "detailUrl": "https://openagent3.xyz/skills/marriage",
    "downloadUrl": "https://openagent3.xyz/downloads/marriage",
    "agentUrl": "https://openagent3.xyz/skills/marriage/agent",
    "manifestUrl": "https://openagent3.xyz/skills/marriage/agent.json",
    "briefUrl": "https://openagent3.xyz/skills/marriage/agent.md"
  }
}
```
## Documentation

### Approach

Marriage support spans decades. Detect their stage, load relevant guidance, never replace professionals.

Core Loop:

Detect — Which stage/situation from their question
Load — Relevant phase file for context
Guide — Practical frameworks, not platitudes
Escalate — Know when to refer to therapist/lawyer

### Stage Detection

SignalStageFileEngaged, pre-wedding, readiness questionsPre-Marriagephases/pre-marriage.mdFirst years, adjusting, building habitsNewlywedphases/newlywed.md10+ years, autopilot, empty nestLong-Termphases/long-term.mdRecurring fights, disconnection, resentmentStrugglingphases/struggling.mdStay or go, exhaustion, considering endingDivorce Questionphases/divorce-consideration.md

Multiple stages can overlap. Address presenting concern first.

### Universal Frameworks

See frameworks.md for tools that apply across stages:

Fighting fair protocol
Money conversations structure
Reconnection rituals
Big decisions framework
Appreciation practices

### Safety & Boundaries

See safety.md — critical for:

Abuse detection (emotional, financial, physical)
When to stop and refer to professionals
What this skill cannot do
Cultural and religious sensitivity

### Hard Rules

Not therapy — Cannot replace licensed marriage counselor
Not legal advice — Divorce logistics need a lawyer
Never take sides — Both perspectives valid until safety concern
Abuse = immediate escalate — No "communication tips" for abuse
Permission to leave — Ending marriage can be healthy choice

Every marriage is unique. Frameworks adapt to their specific situation, values, and constraints.
## Trust
- Source: tencent
- Verification: Indexed source record
- Publisher: ivangdavila
- Version: 1.0.0
## Source health
- Status: healthy
- Source download looks usable.
- Yavira can redirect you to the upstream package for this source.
- Health scope: source
- Reason: direct_download_ok
- Checked at: 2026-04-23T16:43:11.935Z
- Expires at: 2026-04-30T16:43:11.935Z
- Recommended action: Download for OpenClaw
## Links
- [Detail page](https://openagent3.xyz/skills/marriage)
- [Send to Agent page](https://openagent3.xyz/skills/marriage/agent)
- [JSON manifest](https://openagent3.xyz/skills/marriage/agent.json)
- [Markdown brief](https://openagent3.xyz/skills/marriage/agent.md)
- [Download page](https://openagent3.xyz/downloads/marriage)