Requirements
- Target platform
- OpenClaw
- Install method
- Manual import
- Extraction
- Extract archive
- Prerequisites
- OpenClaw
- Primary doc
- SKILL.md
Personal relationship manager that helps you stay in touch with important people through gentle nudges, birthday reminders, and conversation tracking.
Personal relationship manager that helps you stay in touch with important people through gentle nudges, birthday reminders, and conversation tracking.
Hand the extracted package to your coding agent with a concrete install brief instead of figuring it out manually.
I downloaded a skill package from Yavira. Read SKILL.md from the extracted folder and install it by following the included instructions. Tell me what you changed and call out any manual steps you could not complete.
I downloaded an updated skill package from Yavira. Read SKILL.md from the extracted folder, compare it with my current installation, and upgrade it while preserving any custom configuration unless the package docs explicitly say otherwise. Summarize what changed and any follow-up checks I should run.
Keep meaningful relationships warm through gentle, intelligent nudges.
This skill turns your AI agent into a personal relationship manager. It helps you: Stay in touch with friends, family, and professional contacts on a cadence you choose Remember conversations so you can pick up where you left off Track birthdays with day-of reminders or advance notice for gift-giving Manage standing events like weekly calls, game nights, or recurring meetups Capture touchpoints from forwarded emails or quick notes Get gentle nudges without guilt trips or nagging It's a relationship strengthener, not a task manager. Smart storage: Uses a two-file architecture — NETWORK.md for deep reference (full history, stories, context) and NETWORK-ACTIVE.md for weekly snapshots (current action items, overdue contacts, standing events). This keeps daily briefings fast and efficient even with large networks.
Tell your agent: "Let's set up my network CRM" or "Run me through the network onboarding" The agent will guide you through naming 10 people you want to stay in touch with, then help you fill in details for each.
clawhub install personal-crm Or manually place the SKILL.md in your workspace's skills/network-crm/ folder.
Two-file system for performance:
Purpose: Full context, history, stories, relationship depth Size: Can grow to 30k+ words (that's fine, it's reference material) Content: Every contact with full story, context, history, action flags Usage: Agent reads when diving into someone's relationship, planning approach, needing context Update: Whenever you learn something significant about someone
Purpose: Lightweight, scannable, current state Size: Stays ~5-6k words (fast load, efficient) Content: Standing events, action items, contact tiers, overdue check-ins, quick reference Usage: Morning briefings, weekly nudges, "who should I reach out to?" questions Update: Every Monday (or as needed), ~5 minutes Why two files? Single large file = slow morning briefing loads and token overhead ACTIVE is the "this week" snapshot; DEEP is the "who are they really?" reference Agent scans ACTIVE daily for nudges, refers to NETWORK.md when planning approach Keeps performance snappy even with large networks (25+ people) Weekly Refresh Routine: Every Monday (takes ~5 minutes): Update timestamp in NETWORK-ACTIVE.md Log contacts from the week (who you reached out to) Move people from "overdue" to "touched base" if you made contact Update "last contact" and "days ago" fields Flag any new action items Scan NETWORK.md for anyone who needs nudging Optional Archiving: If NETWORK.md grows beyond 40k: Move old history entries to NETWORK-HISTORY-ARCHIVE.md Keep active contacts in main file Maintain last contact date for reference
TierFrequencyExampleweeklyStanding events, very close peopleThursday game night, Sunday family callmonthlyEvery 4 weeksClose friends, key professional contactsquarterlyEvery 12 weeksWider network, former colleaguesbiannualEvery 26 weeksLoose ties, distant friendsas_neededNo regular cadencePartner, people you see organically
TypeDescriptionpartnerRomantic partner - log interactions but don't nudge outreachclose_friendInner circle, prioritize theseprofessionalCareer network, mentors, colleaguesfamilyBlood and chosen familyacquaintanceFriend leads, people worth cultivating
Two tiers: Day-of (default): Reminder on the morning of their birthday for a quick text or call Advance (for gift-givers): Reminder 1-2 weeks before so you have time to shop/ship
Track recurring social commitments: Weekly game nights, family calls, fitness classes Monthly dinners, book clubs The agent reminds you before and asks how it went after
Forward emails to your agent with "FYI for network CRM" to: Auto-log a touchpoint Extract the contact's email address Summarize what you discussed
Note: The skill creates two files during setup: NETWORK.md — Your full relationship map (deep reference) NETWORK-ACTIVE.md — Weekly snapshot (what you need this week) See the Storage Architecture section above for how these work together.
The skill starts with a rapid-fire exercise: "Who's someone you wish you talked to more often?" "Someone you haven't caught up with in a while?" "A friend from an old job you've lost touch with?" "Someone who always makes you laugh?" "A family member you should call more?" "Someone you admire professionally?" "A friend who's going through something big right now?" "Someone you met recently that you'd like to know better?" "An old friend you think about sometimes?" "Anyone else coming to mind?" Then the agent circles back to gather details on each person.
"Do you have any standing social events or regular calls? Things like weekly game nights, Sunday calls with family, monthly dinners, trivia nights, book clubs, fitness classes, hobby groups?"
"Are there any important dates I should track? Birthdays you always forget, anniversaries, holidays where you exchange gifts with specific people?"
"Which gift-giving holidays do you celebrate, if any?" The skill offers options but doesn't assume - not everyone celebrates the same holidays, and some may have complicated relationships with parent-focused holidays.
The skill adds to daily briefings in a warm, conversational tone: Good example: "You might want to reach out to Sarah - last I heard, she was in the middle of that startup pivot. That was back in October, so I'm curious how it landed." Bad example (the skill avoids this): "David is 2 weeks overdue for a quarterly catch-up."
When context is available: "You might want to text Sarah - last time you talked about her startup pivot and her new dog. Something like: 'Hey! Been thinking about you - how did the pivot go?'" When context is missing (self-deprecating): "I don't actually know what you and Jake talked about last time - you haven't told me yet! Wild ideas: ask about Austin, challenge him to a rematch, or just send a meme."
If you express enthusiasm about a connection: "Sounds like that was a great catch-up! Want me to bump Sarah to monthly instead of quarterly?"
Triggered by phrases like: "Just had coffee with Sarah" "Texted with Jake today" "Saw Marcus at the party" The agent asks naturally about what you discussed, what's going on in their life, and what to follow up on next time.
If you have calendar access, the agent can check for Google's auto-created "Birthdays" calendar: gog calendar list Birthdays --account [your-account] --from today --to "next year"
Go to Facebook Settings → Your Facebook Information → Download Your Information Select "Friends and Followers" in JSON format Download and extract Forward friends/friends.json to your agent Or subscribe to Facebook's birthday calendar in Google Calendar and import via the calendar integration.
"How many reach-outs do you want to aim for this month?"
"You've connected with 8 people this month - nicely on track for your goal of 12." Encouraging, never guilt-trippy.
name: "First Last" nickname: "What you call them" relationship_type: partner | close_friend | professional | family | acquaintance tier: weekly | monthly | quarterly | biannual | as_needed how_we_met: "Story of connection" how_to_reach: "text, coffee, email, etc." email: "their@email.com" phone: "+1234567890" birthday: "March 15" birthday_reminder_type: day_of | advance last_contact: 2026-02-03 last_contact_type: coffee | call | text | email | event | gift next_scheduled: 2026-02-15 notes: | - Current life context - Topics for next time standing_events: | - "Game night every Thursday" history: - date: 2026-02-03 type: coffee summary: "What you talked about..." topics_for_next: "Follow up on..."
HolidayTypical DeadlineNotesChristmasMid-DecemberFor shipping timeHanukkahVaries8 nights, may need multiple giftsMother's Day1 week beforeIf applicableFather's Day1 week beforeIf applicableValentine's DayFebruary 13Partner/spouseAnniversary1 week beforePartner/spouseDiwaliVariesIf celebratedLunar New YearVariesIf celebratedEidVariesIf celebrated
IntegrationWhat It EnablesCalendarPre-meeting context, post-meeting prompts, birthday importEmailForward emails to log touchpoints, auto-extract email addressesGift Tracker (separate skill)Link gift history to contacts, suggest gift ideasMeeting Transcripts (future)Auto-extract conversation details from tools like Granola
All data stays local in NETWORK.md Never shared externally Email/phone stored only if you provide or forward Platform search (Gmail, iMessage) only if you've granted access
Nagging - suggests, then backs off Guilt trips - never says "overdue" or implies failure Chore vibes - encouraging, not obligatory Overwhelming - 1-2 suggestions at a time Robotic tone - warm and conversational Assuming holidays - opt-in only One-size-fits-all - respects tiers and relationship types
You: Add my friend Jake to my network Agent: Got it! Tell me about Jake - how do you know each other? You: College roommate Agent: Nice. How often do you want to stay in touch? You: Quarterly Agent: Best way to reach him? You: Text Agent: Do you know his birthday? You: March something Agent: No worries. What's going on in his life these days? You: He was thinking about moving to Austin Agent: Got it - I'll remind you to check in with Jake in about 3 months and ask how the Austin decision went.
You: Just had coffee with Sarah Agent: Nice! How'd it go? You: Great - she got engaged! Agent: That's huge! Anything to follow up on? You: Should send an engagement gift Agent: Done. Want me to bump her to monthly since things are going well?
Agent (morning): Heads up - Mom's birthday is next Saturday. Want help brainstorming gift ideas?
1.0.0 - Initial release with contact management, birthday tracking, standing events, email forwarding, gamification, and gentle nudge philosophy
Long-tail utilities that do not fit the current primary taxonomy cleanly.
Largest current source with strong distribution and engagement signals.